She especially pointed out that he gave tangerine chocolates to other coworkers but O-megi tteok only to her.She thought this meant something special and asked the panelists for opinions.He’s been a great friend, and I know he’s a very kind person.We all have our issues and cope with life differently.Sometimes I think the “normal” people are just people you don’t know well enough yet. We talked about relationships with parents, and how many girls have “daddy issues.” I don’t have dad issues. My parents married at a young age, and have a successful marriage. However, neither Jessie or I would have talked about this stuff so soon without having the therapist as a soundboard. I spent five years seeing a therapist, so this isn’t strange to me.
I like to make people that I’m close to feel comfortable and happy. We went to our first couples therapy session together. He’s afraid of his commitment issues and doesn’t want to hurt me since he respects me. I learned early on that money does not make me happy. In therapy we talked about how I am extremely picky about who I date. I’ve wondered where the feelings actually come from, so I did some reading about it tonight. Are we so desperate for companionship that we’ll compromise our happiness? She asked us straight away if Tim and I were attracted to each other. He almost had a panic attack when I sent him a list of date ideas for the next week! Love is not a matter of the heart, it’s all in our brain. I think it was a bit soon for this, but our therapist Jocelyn wanted to have a consultation first. Jocelyn hit us with a TON of questions that I’m not sure either of us were prepared to talk about so quickly with her: 1. She then asked why we’ve never tried dating in the four years we’ve known each other. He’s not at a place in his life where he wants to settle down. In fact, research shows brain activity in love is almost identical to our brain activity on cocaine. I’ve been in relationships with guys both rich and poor, and a guys wealth does not interest me. ” As Jocelyn said today, “emotions know no project boundaries.” Is there anything that you want to do differently? I was texting with one of my best friends, Greg in Chicago, and he told me to just have fun with it. So many men and women accept this standard, it’s no wonder why half of all marriages end in divorce.